Sometimes we say things we may not mean: Think about a time when you had severe pain and/or discomfort, you may have expressed wishes that were never meant to materialize.
Begin with Validating the Enquiry
Thank you for trusting me enough to ask that question. It seems very important to you, can you tell me more?
I'm glad you asked me about this, but before I answer may I ask more about what led you to ask this question?
I am honored that you felt comfortable enough to talk to me about this. I think it might be better if I ask {team member} to explore this with you.
Thank you for trusting me enough to ask that question. It seems very important to you, can I finish {task} and com back so we have more time to talk about this?
Identify expectations and fears
What do you understand about your situation?
What do you expect will happen next?
How do you think your own death will go?
What is the worst thing that could happen to you as you die?
Ask about options for End of Life
What do you understand about your options for end of life care?
How specifically would you like me to assist you?
Examples of options include:
Palliative Sedation Therapy is used to alleviate intolerable symptoms in the last weeks or days of life
Initiating a g-tube for managing a bowel obstruction to give the patient relief and better quality of life
The use of opioids adequately to alleviate the fear of not being able to breathe
Referring to members of the interprofessional team to deal with anxiety
The patient has the control to stop all treatments to prolong life at anytime in the course of end stage disease
Establish the Patient's Goals of Care
When you think about the future, what are you hoping for?
What is most important to you in the time you have?
What can we do to help you life the life you want to live?
If you were to die now, what would be left undone?
Encourage the patient to have conversations with their loved ones.
Have you shared your thoughts about MAiD with your family?
What does your family think of this decision?
How has your illness affected your family?
Clarifying questions may include:
Are you suffering now?
What kind of suffering concerns you most?
What is your most troublesome symptom?
Try to have the patient share about their values and overall sense of personal meaning:
What is your present quality of life?
What gives you meaning in your life right now?
Rule out Depression and/or Suicide Ideation (refer to psychiatry or psychology if required)
Have you had a good life?
What things in life still give you pleasure?
Are you depressed?
Have you thought about suicide?
Do you have a plan?
Collaborative Enquiry
The MRP, in collaboration with the interprofessional team will consider questions and assessments such as:
Have all other alternatives for care (that are acceptable to the patient) been explored?
Has the patient been informed of alternatives for care and likely associated outcomes?
How urgent is the patient's condition? For example, is the patient's death or loss of capacity imminent?
Have the perspectives of all appropriate individuals been involved? (with patient consent)
Has a referral to palliative care and other appropriate health care team members been made to explore options for symptom management?
Has input from ethics, legal, and/or spiritual care been considered?
Provide the patient with MAiD Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) document and ensure there is an opportunity for discussion