OARS—a set of verbal and non-verbal communication skills that helps clinicians and educators in primary care practices to engage and build rapport with patients and assess their needs. --Source
- OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS
- Open-ended questions ask for more information, a further explanation that requires a longer discussion of the situation. It is the opposite of questions that elicit only “yes” or “no” answers.
- Tell me more about…
- Can you say a little bit more about…
- What was …..like?
- What else?
- Say more about…
- AFFIRMATIONS
- Affirmations are statements that show appreciation or understanding of a person’s situation or experience. They are not compliments – they are observations of ability, decision, or realization. This must be completely sincere without any tinge of irony or sarcasm.
- That sounds like….
- That must have been…
- The steps you are taking show a great deal of …
- It took a lot of strength to…
- It appears that you are going through …
- It must have taken a lot of work to…
- Use any of the following words that might fit
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brave |
self-control |
kindness |
painful |
genuine |
generous |
dilemma |
honorable |
betrayal |
restraint |
indignity |
hard work |
obstacles |
hurdles |
character |
will power |
concern |
willingness |
sensitivity |
strength |
pressure |
inspirational |
abuse |
authentic |
patience |
- Simple REFLECTIONS
- Reflections are statements that show the person you are listening, understanding while also asking for more information or corroboration.
- To the statement, “I don’t need a job right now.”
- A simple reflection is: So what I hear you saying is you’re okay without any employment right now.
- SUMMARIZATIONS
- Summarization is pulling all the current information into perspective so you know you both are on the same page, with understanding that the information exchanged is correct. Check it out.
- So what we’ve been talking about is…Am I on the right track?
- So my understanding of what you’ve been describing is… Is that right?
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